This whole piece is so honest, raw, vulnerable… and very relatable! This really echoes my own experience. I’m a cis-female, married to a man for 13 years. I also came out as bi to my husband this past winter, and then came out to my best friends.

I find it difficult to find my “place” in this in-between world. I’m bisexual, but nothing in my life really signals that, and I live like a hetero woman. Huh. But I *am* bi, I’m not straight, and that has become an important part of who I am. It matters to me.

Thank you for writing this!