The fact that you think I don't know the difference is highly condescending. I haven't conflated anything. I explain in this article, and in others, how training children for obedience & compliance puts them at greater risk of victimization. Perhaps you need to re-read this article, or my others:

https://medium.com/invisible-illness/compliance-makes-us-vulnerable-d6682a102115

https://medium.com/invisible-illness/compliance-makes-us-vulnerable-d6682a102115