Perhaps you should learn more about me by reading my other writing before condescending to me. I'm not confused in the least. I think you will find I understand very well that we are all on a continuum, as you say, given that I have written about everything being on a spectrum.
I have been studying psychology for 20 years and have been hyper-focused on ADHD and Autism for the past five. I can assure you I am well-read on the topics. I certainly don't know everything and am always seeking to learn, but your answer was merely condescending to me rather than providng any information to support your perspective.