Not saying you're Autistic, but to be clear:
-Many Autistic people can and do make eye contact, it's just more uncomfortable for us, and we tend to glance away more often or sooner than allistics (non-Autistics)
-Many Autistics are *highly* empathic
https://medium.com/invisible-illness/autistic-people-are-not-emotionless-robots-91ae8df7c05c